I am a woman in her fourth decade who had a vaginoplasty 2 months ago. I would share my experience with you women, since the improvement I had through this operation, the empowerment it gave me, worth talking of.
As you know, a woman in her forties is just in the late stage of her sexual life, hitting the door of menopause. I just felt for a while that I am in the retirement stage, that my sexual life is fading, and making relations is not a thing of a woman my age and just to please my man, and to increase my self-confidence, I asked my doctor to go through this operation. He advised me to not to go that invasive and to go laser therapy instead. Since our conversation didn’t convince me not to go through, I had my operation still, wishing and hoping a little.
My low expectations of getting a deep feeling and the little hope of making a change in my sexual life seemed to be worthful.
My life changed since then, and what I considered the silent end of my sexual life, turned to be a dawn or a start-over making me enjoying a matured worthy experience. The shallow and reduced feeling I had lately through penetration metamorphosed. My sexual life improved far beyond my expectations.
I am enjoying my feminity with wisdom, appreciating the feelings that I wasn’t able to savour yet when I was a teen! I am making the best of the opportunity I got since my vaginoplasty operation. My partner was triggered by the idea of deflowering me, and we are just happy enjoying this new experience together.